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Bob & Pri @ IntimacyWorks

Relating and loving skills for couples and individuals

About Us

We are Priya and Bob Tourkow. We believe that in this fast, technology-orientated world, people forget how to have deep, connected loving relationships. We are passionate about helping them gain the skills to bring more love, intimacy, sexuality...and fun into their lives.

Why do I post things here? (Are you curious?)

Sometimes when I have thoughts and make little notes (that I then tend to lose) about things I think I might want to post here, I wonder: “Why do I want to post this to our blog?” So I decided I want to tell you why I want write things here. Read More

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26.Mar.08 All About Priya & Bob, Just in General Read more Comments (0)

We’re Mostly Alike! (Even when we seem different.)

I’m a bit late in posting this. I said I would post something after our “Be My Valentine” workshop, but I’m more than a week late. Sorry!One of the things that I always experience when Priyatama and I lead a workshop, is how “teaching” to others actually provides important reminders to me about myself and my relationship with Priya. This post is about one of those “reminders”. Read More

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05.Mar.08 All About Priya & Bob, Communication, Just in General, Relationships Read more Comments (6)

Post-Valentines Weekend glow.

Well, we are back from leading our “Be My Valentine” weekend retreat/workshop, and I am filled with a great feeling of love and connection. We had a great group of people at our favorite venue, Buckland Hall in Wales. As usuallu happens, I learn things from leading workshops. I’d love you to read more to see if what I learned could be helpful to you and your relationships. Read More

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25.Feb.08 All About Priya & Bob, Events We Lead, Just in General Read more Comments (0)

I’m Excited! (about “Be My Valentine”)

Today is Thursday,and tomorrow we go to Wales (from London) to lead our third annual “Valentines” workshop for couples (Feb 22-24), called “Be My Valentine“. We lead different courses and workshops throughout the year but this one is very special to me. I really want to tell you about it and reading about it I hope will give you a deeper insight into who we are. Read More

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21.Feb.08 All About Priya & Bob, Announcements Read more Comments (0)

“I’m Excited!” (about “Alternatives”)

I’m excited! Priya and I have been invited to give a talk about Intimacy at the Alternatives Programme at St. James church in London. And that’s not all. We will also be leading a one-day workshop for them in October.

So why am I so excited about that? Read More

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19.Feb.08 All About Priya & Bob, Announcements, Events We Lead Read more Comments (0)

“Letting Go” - and Trusting

Priyatama and I are “letting go” of something that has been very big in our lives, (in fact it brought us together) and it isn’t easy.

For the past four years, we have been the UK “producers” of a series of USA-based workshops from the “Human Awareness Institute” (”HAI”) called the “Love, Intimacy and Sexuality” workshops. Priya has actually been producing them for almost nine years (before I joined her in England) and I have been deeply involved with them for almost 20 years, mostly in the USA. (I am an American, she is British.)

While we continue to love and support them, we have made a decision to step down from the role of “producing” them. (The workshops will continue in the UK, but produced by others.) Both the decision and the process of stepping down have been quite difficult, and in the “letting go” both of us are learning and growing. I would like to share with you my experience of “letting go”, the “trust” that has taken, and the learning I am gaining from it. Read More

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16.Feb.08 All About Priya & Bob, Just in General, Relationships Read more Comments (5)

A Day of Firsts!

Hi everyone !This is Priyatama, otherwise known as Priya, and this is my very first blog post, which utterly amazes me, since, four years ago, I didn’t know how to turn on a computer!

I love the idea that I can communicate with you in a new way, sharing personally about who we are and what we do. But much more importantly….hear about who you are and what you do…..especially what you do to create more loving connection in your world.

To let you into one of today’s firsts….. Read More

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15.Feb.08 All About Priya & Bob Read more Comments (0)

Wow! My first post to our blog!

Well, this feels both exciting and scary. I have things to say about who I am and about the work I do with my wife, Priyatama (”Priya”), and yet I can feel a little shy. But this is a start, and I’ll see how it goes. I think this will be all for now.

Namaste, Bob

(”Namaste” - A Tantric greeting meaning “I honour the divine in you as I also honour the divine in me.”)

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14.Feb.08 All About Priya & Bob Read more Comments (0)