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Did You Know You Two Have a “Relational Space”?

Summer's here, schools are out, the sun's shining (we hope) AND my guess is....you'd love to be having the most connected, most loving, sexy and fun relationship with your partner you could possibly be having right now.....right? And what is the reality? Well, there may be a variety of realities; aren't there always? Here are […] Read More

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On a day to day basis, in our fast and busy lives, a lot of the communicating we do with one another tends to be brief and focussed on doing things... like planning something or organising some project or other. Or asking: what time is this or that happening? or could you pick the kids […] Read More

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“It’s Not What You Say…

.....It's The Way That You Say It" (PLUS EXERCISES FOR YOUR RELATIONSHIP....further down after photo) You know, how, in relationships, you can get caught up in who said what and who's right? Know what I mean? It can drive you mad....you get into a wordy argument and then you spend lots of time after it, […] Read More

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Share a Couple’s Experience on Our Retreat

Hello, Are you ready for your virtual tour of the "How to Relate More Deeply" couples' weekend? Yes....great. Then off we go on this whistle-stop journey seen through a first time couple's eyes.... Friday late afternoon....we're on the way to Somerset, we talk about why we're going to this retreat and workshop combined thing. We […] Read More

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You Don’t Bring Me Flowers

Last night Bob and I watched a concert of old songs, the kind my Mum and Dad loved....it was wonderful. I was moved by so many of them. And I was moved by myself loving them so much. This one brought me to tears: You don't Bring Me Flowers The words say it all: When […] Read More

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A Special Local and Mini Holiday….

Hello there adventuring couple! Do you find that, in your busy lives as individuals and as a couple, it's quite a challenge to make enjoyable time to be together? I'm not meaning chilling out time in front of the TV, although, of course, TV time together can be very nice, especially if there's a snuggle […] Read More

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My Bob and ADHD..

  Hello again,Just a little word about my hubbie and a bit of a personal share. The truth is Christmas has been really lovely and also rather hard as well. I have been in excruciating pain in my hip (don't worry, am sorting it out) but standing and cooking was impossible, My lovely Bob came up trumps and […] Read More

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A Real Couple in my Therapy Room

This is about a couple who came to see me in my private practice. They are a beautiful example of how the experience itself can potentially take us to the deepest and most loving of places. I describe a session as if we are there now.... Margaret and Simon (not their real names) are in […] Read More

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Keeping Your Love Alive Dialogue

Today I want to give you an actual taste of something we offer in our workshop. Not only might that make you decide to book on a workshop right now!! but it will also offer you a concrete exercise that you can take away and do with your special other or maybe a close friend […] Read More

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Our interview on Dream Corner

Recently we had a lovely time with Viv Oyolu, a radio presenter who is very lively and  passionate about telling women's stories. She interviewed us most enjoyably.  This is how she introduces the interview on her website I got introduced to Priya and once I saw she worked with her husband Bob, I suggested both […] Read More

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